Yesterday, I met up with a friend I used to work out with and returned to the gym. This meeting marked our reunion after a year apart. We became friends because of the gym, but after our gym memberships expired, we went our separate ways, and our lives had no further intersection since then.
When parting, people always say things like "See you next time" or "Let's get together when we have time," which I find somewhat unnecessary. Due to the realities of life, reuniting is often a distant prospect, so I simply refrain from saying such things and just hope that the other person has a smooth life ahead.
I consider myself someone with a strong sense of boundaries; I don't want others to intrude into my life casually, and I also won't disturb others without reason. Perhaps because of this, I find myself less and less eager for friendships and rarely take the initiative to maintain relationships. Lili once asked me, "Aren't you going to contact those friends anymore? Don't you feel regret?" I think it's fine; I don't feel any regret. As the saying goes, "The friendship of gentlemen is as insipid as water." We come together by chance and part ways due to a lack of fate. If the bond isn't over, we will meet again.
Since I first stepped into the gym in 2023, my body has developed significantly and become strong and powerful. I used to be thin and weak, and every time summer passed and autumn began, I would often fall seriously ill. After starting to work out, I hardly got sick anymore, and the most comforting thing is that no one says I'm too thin anymore.
In mid-2024, the COVID-19 virus surged again, and I was infected several times. I then spent a lot of time at driving school, which caused me to neglect my workouts. This return to the gym is hoped to be a good start.